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Mori: I been still reading my lesbian mystery novels,and I found one that doesn't qualify for [community profile] pluralstories  but it's worth mentioning here, because a major part of it is singlet memory work: Under My Skin, by Jaye Maiman. (This book is the third in a series, but like many mysteries, you can jump in wherever. I had no trouble keeping track of stuff.)

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Read through Mending Ourselves: Expressions of healing & self-integration, by the Readers of MANY VOICES from 1993, and I am glad to pass it on. The most useful, practical stuff I found on how an integration may actually go, and how someone may deal or prepare for it, was in "Integration," by Abigail Collins (pg. 163-166), so I'm just going to transcribe that bit:

Discussion of final fusion/integration, memory work, with hints on how to deal with it and warnings of the physical and psychological effects therein. Glancing homophobia and reparenting therapy references. )
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Memory Work and Data Graphics
Series: Essay
Summary: “If the statistics are boring, then you’ve got the wrong numbers.” —Edward R. Tufte, Visual Display of Quantitative Information, 2nd ed., pg. 80
Word Count: 2400
Notes: The winner of this month's Patreon poll!


When we started memory work, it felt like a terrifying, nonsensical quagmire. We had no idea how long it would last, how bad it would be, or whether we were achieving anything. So we did what any nerd would do: we started assembling data.

It took us a few years to settle on a system, which is why we only have proper numbers starting from 2016. But it’s been a huge boon: the morass is now predictable, reliable, and manageable, however unpleasant. With a paper calendar, some spreadsheets, and some graphs, we can track such things as:

• How long it takes to process a memory
• Trends in memory content
• How often we get memory chunks, their minimum, maximum, median, and mean, and greater trends therein
• Our tolerance regarding how many chunks we can take in a month before keeling over, and whether/how that changes.
• The status of our worst trigger
• Is there any pattern in our memory involving the cycle of a year?
• Are our ideas of how to pause memory work true, or are they superstitions?


Sex, violence, and DATA GRAPHICS! )
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WE DID IT! The Kickstarter has ended; we made four times our original goal! Thanks so much, guys, for making this book a reality! We'll soon be working on getting the book and the memory work zine to the printers; that process will take at least a month or two.

There is only 1000 words left of the memory work zine, and it seems a shame to leave that straggler, so I've chosen to exercise my blogly fiat and post it this month, possibly in lieu of the usual writing poll. (Since 3000 words would've been posted this month, had I not accidentally jumped the gun on part 12.)

Previous Chunks: see index!

 

THE END! )
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This is the second-to-last chunk of our memory work essays, posted as promotion for the AllFam Kickstarter. If we hit $4200 before 9 AM tomorrow, that'll be it for these essays! Go team! We've raised four times our original goal, and I really am fucking thrilled. Y'all're truly the best! (Also AAAAAH we hit four grand!  AAAAAH!)

Previous Chunks: see index!

 

Comics in this one! Bro drunk-dials us and gives us some news that explains some things. )

 


--to be concluded in PART 14!

Murder Grampa transcript, because squeezing a comic's worth of transcript into alt text is awful. )
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This is another chunk of our memory work essays, posted as promotion for the AllFam Kickstarter. Two days left! Every $300 raised will get another 1000 words posted, until the end on Oct. 3rd!  As a heads up, the next chunk of the essay that gets posted, should we hit $3600, $3900 will also include a bonus two-page comic!  On top of that, we're not only coming to the end of our Kickstarter, but also the end of the essays!  We have two essay chunks left, which means that we'll have posted ALL the promo essays should we hit $4200!  Y'all've surprised me before; I guess we'll see what happens!

 Previous Chunks: see index!

Some darker discussion of abuse here, heads up! )--to be continued in Lucky Part 13!

 


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This is another chunk of our memory work essays, posted as promotion for the AllFam Kickstarter. Down to the last three days, y'all, and it looks like we're busting into the final essay! Every $300 raised will get another 1000 words posted, until the end on Oct. 3rd!

Previous Chunks: see index!

 

Our data on our own memory work process )

--to be continued in Chunk 12!

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This is another chunk of our memory work essays, posted as promotion for the AllFam Kickstarter. We're in the final week, guys! And we passed $3000! :D This is so exciting! I guess we'll see what the next few days hold! For that time, every $300 raised will get another 1000 words posted. Thanks so much for all y'all's support, guys! Also, reposting the prior paragraph from the last chunk just for continuity since the wordcount break hit a weird place. This is the final chunk of the second essay, Memory Work Proper, and after this, it'll be the final essay, "Memory Work Personally"!

Previous Chunks: see index!

 

Read more... )

 

 


--to be continued in the next essay!

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This is another chunk of our memory work essays, posted as promotion for the AllFam Kickstarter. Every $300 raised will get another 1000 words posted. We're less than $200 to $2000; if/when we hit that, these essays will get illustrated and a special limited color Risograph print run.

Previous Chunks: see index!
Passing the stone, and tactics you should NEVER use. )

 --to be cont. in part 7!

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This is another chunk of our memory work essays, posted as promotion for the AllFam Kickstarter.  Every $300 raised will get another 1000 words posted.  We've gone past $1500, guys!  When we hit $2000, these essays will get illustrated and a special limited color Risograph print run.

Previous Chunks: see index!
Joke's on you! It's more prep work )
--to be continued in Part 6!

 



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This is another chunk of our memory work essays, posted as promotion for the AllFam Kickstarter.  Every $300 raised will get another 1000 words posted.

Previous Chunks: Part OnePart TwoPart Three!

 

Holy crap y'all have moved fast, thank god I have a ton of essay stockpiled, I NEVER EXPECTED )

--to be cont. in Part Five!
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This is another chunk of our memory work essays, posted as promotion for the AllFam Kickstarter.  Every $300 raised will get another 1000 words posted.

Start at Part One!  Read Part Two!

 

Sealing or Delaying Memories )

--Cont. in part 4

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