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Today, we went to an offline wake for the soon-to-be-defunct website Cohost. I admit, when I came out, I wasn't sure anyone else would even be there, but imagine the surprise when I found roughly three dozen people!

It was an experience unlike anything we had been to. People brought brownies and stickers and stamps to share. There was a big sign for the Eggbug Fan Club; we drew a heart on it. (Passerby peered at us with curiosity. What were we, some sort of performance art? A joke? A cult?) Everyone wore a mask. We talked about the things we loved about Cohost, and what we were planning to do next, and swapped contact info. There was a feeling of camaraderie and celebration, even as we expressed sadness at the site's soon-to-be passing. But there was a sense of forward movement, a sense that things would be okay, and that we could build into better things, using skills we'd learned (or been inspired to learn) from Cohost.

I was a lurker on Cohost. Exactly two people knew I was on it at all, and one of them was at the wake. (The other are friends on here.) I didn't have an account for very long, and I never said anything of importance on there. But it made me realize just how an incredibly hostile Internet has warped my behavior, even though I haven't had much trouble in years.

Cohost made me think: hey, what if I STOPPED acting like a soldier who never came back from the war? What if I STOPPED writing like my primary audience are rabid wolverines and not decent people? What if I tried to embody Cohost's values and help make my little corner of the Internet a warmer, friendlier place?

Cohost may soon be gone, but the spirit of Eggbug never dies! VIVE EGGBUG!

Date: 2024-09-30 12:51 am (UTC)
nevanna: (Default)
From: [personal profile] nevanna
Oh, was that what that was? I probably walked right by you in Davis today!

I'm glad it was a good time!

Date: 2024-09-30 02:02 am (UTC)
andr0meda: An SD Gundam Nadleeh. (Default)
From: [personal profile] andr0meda
Glad to hear that the vibes were good. I will attempt going to one myself soon.

Date: 2024-09-30 03:02 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] kossai
kossai come to dreamwidth from cohost , so ... hello !
no meets anywhere near kossai , and would not be able anyway , but happy to know cohost uplift :)

Date: 2024-10-01 10:18 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] numinousdread
This looks like a sweet send-off. I'm glad you got to attend!
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