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lb_lee ([personal profile] lb_lee) wrote2025-07-18 08:03 pm
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Cripping Interior Design

Mori: you know how some people got really into sourdough or birding because of COVID? Well, Biff got really into interior design.

Not in the “ah yes, this is the Edwardian room” or “put a mirror here for feng shui” ways, but in the “how can I make this room better for me?” way.

We might talk, as disabled people, about ramps or visual doorbells, but not so much interior design. That’s considered frivolous, I guess. But if you’re struggling to stay sober, what room is going to be better for you: one with booze as the centerpiece of the room, impossible to ignore, or one with no obvious visible liquor cabinet? How many of us have come to hate a bed or chair that we just can’t get comfortable in?

Plague meant we were going to spend a lot of time indoors. We might as well arrange it to be as comfy and sanity-boosting as possible.

We already choose our possessions and furnishings around constant moves and semi-regular homelessness. But Biff found that if we rolled out our futon next to our bookshelves, we were happier and could easily read in bed. Having our clothes rack similarly near made it easier to get out of bed on cold winter days, because we could grab warm clothes without exiting the blankets. Having too much stuff made us feel blurgh and also made it harder to find the USEFUL stuff on a bad brain day, so we pared down. Being able to put our bed directly on the floor and see every corner and door of our room made our nightmares way easier to deal with, more so than any medication. A million little things, scooting stuff around like a hamster, made our room feel like HOME.

He by far has the most energy for this, and we all agree it’s made a subtle but significant positive change in our life. We don’t know how we got by without him.
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[personal profile] numb3r_5ev3n 2025-07-19 03:40 am (UTC)(link)
I got super into this idea 10 or so years ago, to the point of considering maybe going back to school for interior design. How your space is set up is super important! It can totally change how you live in and experience the space!
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[personal profile] pantha 2025-07-19 06:49 am (UTC)(link)
Definitely agree that the littlest things can make a difference. E.g. we swapped the order of the drawers that our clothes live in so that instead of going (top to bottom) my everyday / husband's everyday / my occasional / husband's occasional they now go husband's everyday / husband's occasional / my everyday / my occasional. Helps the husband a lot with pain management as it reduces the amount of stooping he has to do.
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[personal profile] cheliceri 2025-07-21 09:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Cripping interior design is important. Biff is right.
-Vaggie
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[personal profile] cheliceri 2025-07-21 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
So true. We're not able to have anything with working shelves because the toddler climbs. We have one lone credenza that has withstood the test of time, but the damn thing is not only bolted to the wll with the kind of anchors you use in earthquake country to hold your furniture to the walls so it doesn't fall over, but the tops of the anchors are nailed into the credenza to keep the toddler from yanking them out. It's a wold time.
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[personal profile] cheliceri 2025-07-22 04:15 am (UTC)(link)
Fuck! Don’t we all!
Tonight, they yoinked a panel of the blackout film off our window after not doing so for literal damn months!