For years we let other systems guide us. We're a lot better about that now but oh my god we can relate to your first paragraph up there. Especially the bit about moving the goal posts.
Also, Crisses (I know I know) have this United Front boot camp thing, which is actually.... surprisingly good in that the first thing it says is to stop expecting perfection, or to have everything all at once.
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Date: 2018-09-21 12:00 am (UTC)Also, Crisses (I know I know) have this United Front boot camp thing, which is actually.... surprisingly good in that the first thing it says is to stop expecting perfection, or to have everything all at once.