Meg-John Barker: Plural Selves
Jan. 27th, 2021 10:03 pmBarker seems to see their own plurality in more of a faceted, inner family systems sort of way. Some quotes from their FAQ I think are particularly relevant and interesting:
"Probably 1-3% of people have the experience of being multiple separate selves so vividly that they would identify – or be identified – as plural, or DID. But probably most people have some experience of plurality some of the time, and maybe a third to a half of people could experience themselves quite significantly as plural – perhaps if wider culture was more understanding of it as a thing.
"Some nice made-up statistics about plurality there [...] But you take the point.
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"The risk of completely buying only a trauma narrative of plurality is that it continues the stigmatising view that there’s something wrong with being plural that needs to be fixed or healed: that working towards integration as a coherent, singular self is the way to go. In fact you could argue that an insistence on being one unified individual is a kind of intergenerational trauma: we don’t allow kids to play and embrace all the different potentials that they have because we give them such clear messages about what it is and isn’t okay to be."
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