Hungry Ghosts uploaded cool stuff!

[lb_lee]

They've put it up on their website, https://feastingwithghosts.com/creations! Some highlights:

• Finding (and Weighing) Safe Spaces: Finding people you can be yourself around is important, but how do you protect yourself from the wolves?
• So You Want To Date A Headmate: A non-exhaustive list of things to consider. Focuses mostly on hosts dating non-hosts.
• Throwing the Torch: When the people responsible for outer life walk away, what about those who carry on in their place?
• Handling the "Silent Periods": Everyone's gone quiet, and you're beginning to question everything. What can you do?
• Finding Your Own Methods: On doing what works - or rather, not doing what doesn't work.

Comments

[wispfox]

Finding and weighing safe spaces needs to be shared far and wide amongst everyone who is non-conforming in any way at all.

So common to be too trusting.

[wolfy_writing]

Yeah, that one stuck out to me as really helpful. I think the way the concept of "radical vulnerability" gets pushed in some online communities isn't helping people think about what they actually want when it comes to sharing things.

[wispfox]

"the way the concept of "radical vulnerability" gets pushed in some online communities isn't helping people think about what they actually want when it comes to sharing things."

I had no idea that was even a thing! I mean, I'm not surprised, mind you.

[cosmicspacekid]

"finding your own methods" has helped us alot lately with figuring out system stuff- we're fairly new to discovering our plurality, and it's a process :]

[lb_lee]

Mori: welcome to the adventure, cousin!