I am often caught between this desire for an entirely secure space, but I also acknowledge is unrealistic. I'm frustrated by the tendency I notice for people to go after others when they do use the "right" language or make a mistake.
Lately, I've been thinking about this cultural tendency to pretend that everything's fine, and I wonder what to do to create an atmosphere for healthy discussions. Has anyone had an experience where conflict actually is healthy and encouraged? What works?
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Date: 2020-08-01 09:06 pm (UTC)Lately, I've been thinking about this cultural tendency to pretend that everything's fine, and I wonder what to do to create an atmosphere for healthy discussions. Has anyone had an experience where conflict actually is healthy and encouraged? What works?