I mean, we figure for most people, the "safe space" is at home! We're just weird in that home is, to our brain, the most dangerous place to be. So having a place that's safe at home would probably be the more usual place... the blanket fort in your room, or what have you.
We were mostly thinking of it as a physical place, just because if you aren't safe corporeally, it's unlikely your brain will want to cooperate. But if that just isn't available... I dunno. You could try seeking it out internally and let us know how it works for yez?
Yeah, I dunno, we've just always found graveyards really peaceful places to be. Then again, in our area of the country, there's a lot of old-fashioned park cemeteries that aren't just a flat plain of identical plots. And also, however grim, morbid, or gross people find dead people, you can't deny that dead people are categorically far less likely to harm someone than a living one!
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Date: 2019-09-08 04:43 pm (UTC)We were mostly thinking of it as a physical place, just because if you aren't safe corporeally, it's unlikely your brain will want to cooperate. But if that just isn't available... I dunno. You could try seeking it out internally and let us know how it works for yez?
Yeah, I dunno, we've just always found graveyards really peaceful places to be. Then again, in our area of the country, there's a lot of old-fashioned park cemeteries that aren't just a flat plain of identical plots. And also, however grim, morbid, or gross people find dead people, you can't deny that dead people are categorically far less likely to harm someone than a living one!