Fair enough. I mostly hang in bi and poly spaces (funny, since I'm neither) where people are generally okay with calling us by whatever pronouns we want, even if most of them are singlet or cis themselves. So far, the only pronoun slips I've encountered are by people who don't know me, or one guy who just screws up EVERYONE's pronouns, so it's not personal.
Ah, I understand trying to rig things to make everything as comfortable for future system members as possible. Thankfully, our ranks are pretty solid; the last roster change we had was almost exactly five years ago, and that was a pretty unusual event. ("OMG WHAT ARE YOU DOING HERE?")
We run our system by unanimous consensus (there's five of us) so with the mix of genders and names, it's been a bit of a trick, trying to find a compromise state. We haven't gotten around to changing our name yet, but we plan to change it to a form of the system name, since NOBODY here has the body name and NOBODY calls us it anymore except for doctors and family members who haven't adjusted. It's a bit of a balancing act at times, but so far seems to be working for us.
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Ah, I understand trying to rig things to make everything as comfortable for future system members as possible. Thankfully, our ranks are pretty solid; the last roster change we had was almost exactly five years ago, and that was a pretty unusual event. ("OMG WHAT ARE YOU DOING HERE?")
We run our system by unanimous consensus (there's five of us) so with the mix of genders and names, it's been a bit of a trick, trying to find a compromise state. We haven't gotten around to changing our name yet, but we plan to change it to a form of the system name, since NOBODY here has the body name and NOBODY calls us it anymore except for doctors and family members who haven't adjusted. It's a bit of a balancing act at times, but so far seems to be working for us.
--Rogan