Its such a trainwreck. Its best you missed it, we have taken SO MUCH psychic damage.
They've tried to combine people who should be introduced to the concept of median systems, people doing reparenting therapy, people having a common trauma response, self-hating nonsexual CGL players, and normal kid behavior of liking and playing with toys being pathologized into one community and it just fundamentally is not making a safe environment. Especially because the community is usually an open-to-the-public social media tag or subreddit or whatever (not that the private discord servers are any less terrible). So many blatant red-flags for predators everywhere every time we check up on whats going on over there. You don't even want to know how bad it is. Yeesh!
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They've tried to combine people who should be introduced to the concept of median systems, people doing reparenting therapy, people having a common trauma response, self-hating nonsexual CGL players, and normal kid behavior of liking and playing with toys being pathologized into one community and it just fundamentally is not making a safe environment. Especially because the community is usually an open-to-the-public social media tag or subreddit or whatever (not that the private discord servers are any less terrible).
So many blatant red-flags for predators everywhere every time we check up on whats going on over there. You don't even want to know how bad it is. Yeesh!