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The Dragonheart Collective ([personal profile] monsterqueers) wrote in [personal profile] lb_lee 2023-01-10 05:02 pm (UTC)

What a wonderful resource and bit of history!

"Memories are kind of like shoes; it's normal to try on somebody else's memory to see if it fits. [...] If it doesn't belong to you, eventually the memory will begin to pinch, and you'll discard it. [...] If it's your memory, you'll keep it. If it's not, you won't."

This is an excellent quote, and the contract idea is a good one. Its not in vogue in the community right now to recommend formal agreements like that, but we feel like it ought to make a comeback. Formal agreements can feel like they will really stick in a way that just saying 'yeah sure' to informal ones really doesnt. It helps everyone know exactly whats expected of them and others.


Thanks for sharing!

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