Very well put - thanks for sharing this. A lot of my self-acceptance came from erring on the side of feeling good and doing good. I can't prove that my headmates or the worlds they are remember are "real" by any widely accepted metric. But having them in my life greatly improves the quality of that life (as well as their lives, in the form of our relationships and their relationships with each other).

And questioning their reality and their memories would just hurt them and do no one any good. It would be like treating corporeal people like crap because they can't PROVE that this isn't all the Matrix!! It's like, get out of here with that solipsistic crap, y'know?

~Elle