Yes but the important thing to take away from that is we'll get past this. We'll get past (are currently GETTING past) the Memory Wars, and we'll get past the petty squabbling in the overarching plural community umbrella — not by "proving" anything to other folk or correcting their misconceptions.

But by making change in the world that benefits everyone under the umbrella. A group is only as solid as its weakest folk. By helping out trans, BIPOC, co-morbid dx, disabled, impoverished, incarcerated, homeless plurals we help us all.

It's our goal to make sure we don't leave folk out. They get to opt out, not get left out.