Good point! And yeah, I tried to build criteria on how to find the "safe space" regardless of geography, for folks who maybe had trauma happen outside the home.
(And also because we've also seen folks default to what the culture AROUND them says is safe or comforting, rather than what they themselves find safe or comforting. It took us a while to figure out that our intense flight response had any logic to it!)
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(And also because we've also seen folks default to what the culture AROUND them says is safe or comforting, rather than what they themselves find safe or comforting. It took us a while to figure out that our intense flight response had any logic to it!)
(Also welcome to Dreamwidth, Ed!)
--Rogan