Yeah, at first I tried to cover the inter-headspace travel thing in this essay too, but it was just too much, even though I think it's the basically the same root "special connection" thing. And at base, if not done carefully and with the same provisos I give for conducting bookend headmates healthyfully, it IS, "becoming the person the other expects/wants."

And giving that level of power over identity to someone else... I'm not sure ANYONE should have that level of power. Even if their motives and intentions are good.

--Rogan