Date: 2007-11-17 04:54 pm (UTC)
As a corollary, especially to points nine and ten, I'm increasingly starting to realise the importance of long-term patience, as an uncloseting even after the best of outcomes really is the beginning of a much longer process of acceptance, discovery and acquaintance on the part of the unclosetee. Expect things to progress gradually, even with the best of intentions.

At least, that's the pattern that's emerging here, regardless of whether the person is actively trying to learn, passively accepting or just weirdly quiet. I can handle that, but not everyone (in here or elsewhere) is as patient.

/ mina (sounding like Imin)
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